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Shirley F.
Dent
Feb 15, 1936 — Aug 11, 2026
Mrs. Shirley F. Dent entered into rest on Tuesday, August 11, 2026. Mrs. Dent may be viewed on Friday August 21, 2026, from 2:00 from 6:00 pm at the funeral
home. There will be a private burial.
A Mother Remembered
Mrs. Shirley Francis Dent has been known by many names Mrs. Dent, Shirley Dent, Mom, Mama Shirley,
Ma Ma, Grandma, Aunt Shirley, Shirley McKie, Sister Shirley, and Shelly (southern version of Shirley). But
to us, one name rises above them all. It is the name that holds her love, her protection, her sacrifice, and her
strength. It is the name that still brings her closest to our hearts...Mama.
The Mama Who Raised Us
As children, we carry memories of Mama that are simple, honest, and unforgettable. Some make us laugh, some
still make us pause, but together they reveal the strength, discipline, faith, and love that shaped who she was and
who we became. There are so many memories, but these are the ones we're going to honor.
The look that stopped you cold : Mama did not always have to raise her voice to get our attention.
If she caught you misbehaving around guests, family friends, or other adults, all she had to do was
turn those brown eyes toward you and hold that look. It was steady, focused, and sharp enough to
make you straighten up before she ever said a word. We knew exactly what it meant: misbehave now,
and answer for it later. And when the guests were gone, we often heard the words we dreaded most:
"Go get me a switch." Anyone from the South who was born before 1970 knows exactly what a switch
is-a small tree branch used for discipline. And if Mama sent you to get one, you knew not to return
with something too small. The hardest part was not always the whipping itself; it was the long walk
outside, searching for the right branch-nothing too small, nothing too big-while wondering what
kind of mood she would be in when you returned. Plus, seeing Mama's disappointed expression didn't
make things any better. Mama believed in discipline, and she did not have to repeat herself often.
She understood that the world outside our home could be unforgiving, so she expected us to learn
respect, obedience, and self-control while we were still young. We respected Mama deeply, and yes,
at times we were afraid of her too. But that look was effective, because we rarely misbehaved
around company more than once.
When Mama Let Loose: For an older lady, Mama could really dance. She brought back dances from the
1950s and 1960s-the Twist, the Mashed Potato, the Jerk, the Dog, the Funky Chicken, and more. Those
were the rare moments when she laughed freely, let loose, and showed us a joyful side of herself.
She did not play with us often, but when she did, we remembered it. Sometimes she would even get
out there and play baseball with us. Mama was fast, strong, and fearless, and in another life, she
could have been a great athlete. Those moments did not happen every day, but they happened enough
for us to know that beneath all the discipline and hard work, Mama loved us and enjoyed being with
us.
Always finding a way: When Mama was not sharing a rare laugh, dance, or playing games with us, Mams
was working around our house. Mama was up around 5:30 in the morning and did not stop until nearly
10 at night. Cooking, cleaning, gardening, washing clothes, ironing, repairing things around the
house-whatever needed to be done, Mama found a way to do it. Mama was also a wonderful seamstress
who passed down her sewing skills to her daughters. We do not remember seeing her take breaks. She
simply moved from one task to the next, carrying the weight of four children and caring for her
elderly father with minimal financial resources. But Mama did not complain. She took what was in
front of her, figured it out, and kept going. Mama was strong in every way that
mattered-physically, mentally, and in the way she kept pushing forward. Mama's side hustle was
being the neighborhood beautician, which was a real lifesaver during some tough financial times.
She was an amazing beautician-just like everything she did!
Unwavering faith: Mama was a devoted believer in Jesus Christ. Mama made sure we said grace before
meals and our prayers at night. And we went to Sunday school every Sunday. Those early days were
difficult for all of us, but they were especially hard on Mama as she watched her family struggle
to meet basic needs and knew she did not have the means to help as much as she wanted. But as hard
as life was then, Mama never lost her faith in God. She was always praying, and she prayed hard and
loud, particularly late at night. Mama led us to Jesus Christ through the example of her life. We
saw the many daily challenges she faced, yet Mama never lost her faith in Christ. As children, we
believed there had to be something real about the Christ she kept calling on, trusting that one day
He would deliver us all.
Living Her Best Life
Jesus Christ surely carried Mama through those difficult years. And over time, life began to look a
little different for her and for her four children. The struggle did not disappear overnight, but
things began to improve in ways that mattered. Those were the years when more of Mama's gifts
started to shine, and with the love, support, and resources of her children, she began to
experience a better life for herself and the family she had worked so hard to raise.
These are the memories from our young adult years that we are especially thankful for and will
never forget. This was a different season with Mama-a happier season. She was proud to see her
children doing well in life, both spiritually and professionally, and in many ways, we finally
began to see her enjoy more of the life she deserved.
The kitchen was her ministry : Everybody believes their mother can cook-and we're sure yours
could-but in our hearts, Mama was in a class of her own. She could make just about anything taste
good: fried chicken, fried fish, greens, mashed potatoes, macaroni and cheese, and so much more.
And like everything else Mama took on, she gave it her all. When guests stopped by, she did not
just welcome them into the house; she made sure they were fed. Looking back, it seems like Mama was
always feeding somebody-family, friends, neighbors, and guests. We hardly remember her sitting down
long enough to enjoy the meal herself. She was too busy serving others, watching people enjoy what
she had prepared, and giving from the heart without expecting anything in return. That was Mama. In
the kitchen, she was not just a good cook; she was a master. But two of her specialties deserve
special mention:
Best sweet potato pies in the world : No one could ever get enough of Mama's sweet potato pies. They
had that beautiful golden-brown glaze on top, and the taste was something you did not forget. And
no, Mama did not use milk or eggs-the recipe was Mama's secret. Mama made pies for family, friends,
and guests, and it gave her real joy when someone asked for one. Mama would spend hours in a hot
kitchen, working over those pies until they came out just right. Mama had a gift, and she shared
all the wonderful things that came with it. Every compliment seemed to lift her spirit, especially
when someone told her what we already knew: Mama's sweet potato pies were the best in the world.
Her hands still remembered: Like her sweet potato pies, Mama's biscuits were unforgettable.
Biscuits and grits were a breakfast staple in our home while growing up, and nobody made them quite
like she did. About 18 months ago, while Mama was visiting in Atlanta, we asked if she still
remembered how to make biscuits. She simply said, "Sure." Even though she was dealing with
short-term memory loss and had not made them in nearly 15 years, she walked into the kitchen and
went straight to work. We watched as her hands remembered what her mind might have struggled to
explain-the ingredients, the steps, the mixing, the rolling of the dough, and the feel of when
everything was just right. Those biscuits were amazing! We think she even surprised herself. There
she was, 88 years old, making biscuits by hand for the first time in two decades-and giving us a
memory we will never forget.
"Have you prayed about it?" : Whenever we came to Mama for advice or comfort, her first and favorite
question was always, "Have you prayed about it?" She truly believed that answers could be found in
prayer-that if you asked God, trusted Him, and believed in Him, He would make a way. And it was
hard to question her faith, because we had watched God carry her through a long and difficult
journey. Mama was not performing. She believed it, lived it, and leaned on it. If you were having
trouble at work, she would ask, "Have you prayed about it?" If you were struggling in your
marriage, she would ask, "Have you prayed about it?" If you could not decide which house to buy,
she would ask, "Have you prayed about it?" That was Mama's way of reminding us that God is in
control-that He opens doors, and through God, there is always a way forward.
'Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will
be opened."
Matthew 7:7-8 I NIV
"We'll take both" : Mama loved shoes-she was a true shoe enthusiast, with all kinds of shapes,
colors, and styles. Her favorite style was stilettos, and even in her eighties, she still enjoyed
wearing four-inch heels. Yes, stilettos!
Every time we came home to visit, Mama wanted to go shopping for more shoes. At one point, she
owned more than S0 pairs. When Mama relocated to Houston to live with my sister, she could only
take about 10 pairs with her, so the rest were donated to the Salvation Army. Mama also loved hats.
Like her shoes, they came in many styles, shapes, and colors, and she had a hat for almost every
occasion. Mama owned at least 20 hats, and when she moved to Houston, most of them were donated as
well. We loved watching Mama buy the shoes and hats she wanted, because for so many years, she
rarely bought anything new for herself. Her selfless nature always placed her family first. When
she finally had the chance to choose something just for her, we enjoyed every minute of it-even
when it took a while. She would go back and forth, trying to decide which pair to buy, and the
conversation almost always ended the same way: "We'll take both."
From Farm to Table: Mama loved to garden. Even after her children had grown and moved on with their
lives, she was still an early riser, often up around S:30 in the morning and working late into the
evening, coming inside around 7:00. With no children left in the house, Mama filled her days the
way she always had-by working with her hands. Mama's garden was large and full, with tomatoes,
corn, collards, cabbage, okra, green beans, black-eyed peas, potatoes, and more. Mama was
farm-to-table before farm-to-table ever became a popular idea. She loved the soil, loved the work,
and spent whole summer days planting, tending, and harvesting. In the winter, she would cut down
small trees and clear high grass to make the garden even bigger. It was a never-ending process, but
it was one she truly enjoyed. Just like she mastered the art of cooking, Mama mastered the art of
gardening. There was almost nothing she could not grow. As with her cooking, Mama was happy to
share the bounty from her garden with friends and family.
Surrounded by Love
Early in 2016, we noticed Mama was having memory problems. Mama was forgetting to take her
medication, which quickly became a serious concern. We also saw a change in her energy. This was a
woman who had always been active, always working, and always moving, but now something was
different. The doctor diagnosed her wit short-term memory loss and eventually recommended that she
not be left home alone. Marilyn volunteered to bring Mama to Houston to live with her. Mama
remained in Marilyn's care for 10 years. Although we all supported Marilyn with resources, she
carried the daily responsibility of caring for Mama, and she did an outstanding job. Mama could be
a handful at times, but Marilyn stayed faithful through every challenge. As a family, we agreed
that we would never place Mama in a nursing home, and because of Marilyn's dedication, we were able
to keep that promise. Marilyn provided Mama with excellent care, patience, and love when Mama
needed it most. While in Houston, Mama traveled across Texas and Oklahoma and visited New York and
New Jersey. Mama had some of her happiest years in Houston with Marilyn and her family. Marilyn
would sometimes treat Mama to dinner and dancing. And guess what? Mama was still dancing in her
eighties!
'Mama had some of her happiest years in Houston with Marilyn."
On Tuesday morning, August 11, 2026, around 2:15 a.m. CST, our beautiful Mama-the woman who still
loved her four-inch stilettos-passed into the hands of Jesus Christ. Mama, born February 15, 1936,
in Clarks Hill, South Carolina, was the fifth of ten children of Charlie and Rose McKie. Mama was
preceded in death by her husband, Mr. Walker Burton Dent; her five siblings - Willie McKie Sr.,
Reathy Sutton, Ella Mae Thomas, Sarah McKie, and Lewis McKie; and two sisters-in-law - Barbara
Charles and Frances Lee.
1 The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.
2 He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art
with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with
oil; my cup runneth over.
6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house
of the LORD for ever.
Mama's Legacy Lives On
Mama leaves a beautiful legacy of strength, love, and unwavering faith through the family she
cherished.
Her Children
Henry (Yvette) Golphin, Hephzibah, GA; Marilyn (Wendell) Dent-Allen, Houston, TX ; Edith (Timothy)
Dent-Adams, Greenwood, SC and Allen (Debra) Dent , Alpharetta, GA
Her Siblings
Rosetta Twiggs, Brooklyn, NY; Charlie (Carolyn) McKie , Dover, DE; Charlotte Thomas, Long Island,
NY; and Florine McKie, Brooklyn, NY
Mama's legacy also continues through 10 grandchildren, 12 great-grandchildren, one
great-great-grandchild, and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.
Mama's Legacy
Mama's legacy is rooted in the values by which she lived: faith, discipline, selflessness, hard
work, and an unmistakable joy for life. Those qualities did not end with her. They live on in her
children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchild.
The sacrifices Mama made and the lessons she taught have been passed from one generation to the
next. We see pieces of her in ourselves-in our faith, our strength, our work ethic, the way we care
for our families, and, every now and then, in the way we dance.
As one generation gives way to another, it is now our responsibility to carry those values forward
and pass them on to those who come after us. Mama's life was not simply a life well lived; it was a
foundation upon which generations have been built.
Her work is done. Her legacy is not.
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